December 23rd 2008
“I Am Not Free To Hate Anyone”
T
he amazing ineptness of the media and the left in processing Pastor Rick Warren’s beliefs reveals the deep divides that exist in our society, and the emotional alliance between the media and the radical left and gay activists. Here’s just a sampling of what’s being written about Warren this morning.
Here’s DeWayne Wickham writing in USA Today: “Recently, Warren — who, like most evangelical leaders, disagrees sharply with Obama on social issues such as … gay rights …”
Richard Cohen, writing in WaPo: “Warren is anti-gay.”
Also in WaPo, E.J. Dionne: “[Warren] would do well to apologize for comparing gays to pedophiles.”
Here’s Derrick Z. Jackson in the Boston Globe: “Obama seems compelled to close his eyes to one of the most powerful forms of conservative-driven bigotry left in this country.”
And Katha Politt in the LA Times: “Warren doesn’t just oppose gay marriage, he’s compared it to incest and pedophilia.”
As I’ve written previously, you can be opposed to gay marriage and for gay rights, you can be opposed to gay marriage and not be anti-gay, and from a Christian worldview, all sin is just plain sin, wether it’s homosexuality, adultry, materialism – or incest or pedophelia.
I’m not going to write about it again.

Instead, I’m going to give you the chance to hear Warren answer these charges in his own words, in video clips embedded in his “Pastor Rick’s News & Views” newsletter that goes to members of Saddleback Church.
In the first video, Rick confronts the “incest and pedophelia” challenge head-on and restates his view on marriage, as defined in the Bible and by virtually every other religion, worldwide for all time. In this clip, Rick says:
I am opposed to forcing people to act the way I want them to act. … I have to love everybody regardless of the choices they make. I am not free to hate anyone.
In the second video, Rick discusses civil rights, free speech and the role of the Christian to be a champion of civility – something that’s been missing from many of his accusers. It’s pretty straightforward (gayforward?):
No Americans should ever be discriminated against because of their beliefs. Period. Because we are Americans.
Finally, in the third video, Rick discusses how he will respond to the attacks and accusations – by returning love to hate:
How will we respond to these people who attack Saddleback? We will love and we will love and we will love, and we will pray and we will care.
If you’ve come to this site full of anger over Obama’s designation of Rick Warren as prayer-leader for the inauguration, I invite you to listen to these clips and understand the man and the faith. You will feel better, I guarantee you.
And I also encourage you even more to read Melissa Ethridge’s piece at HuffPo. She came to Warren with the same sort of anger:
I hadn’t heard of Pastor Rick Warren before all of this. When I heard the news, in its neat little sound bite form that we are so accustomed to, it painted the picture for me. This Pastor Rick must surely be one hate spouting, money grabbing, bad hair televangelist like all the others. He probably has his own gay little secret bathroom stall somewhere, you know. One more hater working up his congregation to hate the gays, comparing us to pedophiles and those who commit incest, blah blah blah. Same ‘ole thing.
But after talking with him, came away with a very different view and great hope for a more reconciled, less angry future:
On the day of the conference I received a call from Pastor Rick, and before I could say anything, he told me what a fan he was. He had most of my albums from the very first one. What? This didn’t sound like a gay hater, much less a preacher. He explained in very thoughtful words that as a Christian he believed in equal rights for everyone. He believed every loving relationship should have equal protection. He struggled with proposition 8 because he didn’t want to see marriage redefined as anything other than between a man and a woman. He said he regretted his choice of words in his video message to his congregation about proposition 8 when he mentioned pedophiles and those who commit incest. He said that in no way, is that how he thought about gays. He invited me to his church, I invited him to my home to meet my wife and kids. He told me of his wife’s struggle with breast cancer just a year before mine.
When we met later that night, he entered the room with open arms and an open heart. We agreed to build bridges to the future.
That’s what can happen when people move beyond mere posturing. Will the issues be resolved? Who really cares. Right now it would just be good if we could just dial down the volume.


